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Good night US
In this piece, I follow the structure of Margaret Wise Brown’s Goodnight Moon children’s book to explore elements of change in the US.
Janet Tilstra
Oct 29, 20251 min read


Ninety-Nine for a Moment
In this tight experimental form--between prose and poetry--I recall everyday moments related to mortality and life decisions. I may come back and noodle on this piece more, but putting this start forward for now.
Janet Tilstra
May 8, 20252 min read


Picking up hearing aids (or s#*t happens)
This short piece is a reflection from a difficult day of caregiving which ended with a tiny act of generosity from a stranger.
Janet Tilstra
Sep 4, 20241 min read


This is Good-Bye
I recently discovered a genre of writing called Flash nonfiction. Read on about a good-bye party in this form.
Janet Tilstra
Apr 10, 20241 min read


Things I didn't know I loved...
These are some sample poems from a poetry workshop prompt: "I didn't know I loved, until...." If you want to open gratitude, try it!
Janet Tilstra
Jan 24, 20241 min read


See Me.
For 6 years (2012-2018), I lived with a chronic pain condition, Trigeminal Neuralgia. I told almost no one... Why? Read on for my journey.
Janet Tilstra
Jan 10, 20242 min read


Pantoum Poetry on life, death, and church
My mind has felt messy lately, so I've been experimenting with Pantoum poetry as a different way to process complex thoughts. Try it!
Janet Tilstra
Oct 21, 20232 min read


Pattern finding: A tool for change
My cat Mowgli, is an expert pattern-finder. I too am on a journey to identify and understand my own patterns and how they affect life.
Janet Tilstra
Aug 23, 20232 min read


Growth Mindset & Sticking the Landing
This morning, I watched two fledgling Bald Eagles in their flying lessons. Their persistence and the parent's coaching style caught my eye.
Janet Tilstra
Jun 26, 20233 min read


Home Thermostats & the Patriarchy
I started to unpack my passive-aggressive approach to heat regulation. Here’s what I came up with. The patriarchy. Wait, don’t leave...
Janet Tilstra
Mar 29, 20233 min read


The world is changing one Dayton’s at a time
Post COVID, we’ve landed in a world where institutions that seemed secure and stable feel shaky and uncertain. It can feel unmooring.
Janet Tilstra
Jan 31, 20233 min read


Pop-Up Poetry at a Canadian Conference
When I heard about Pop-Up poetry at my conference, I expected to get a lighthearted limerick similar to a caricature picture. I was wrong.
Janet Tilstra
Dec 7, 20222 min read


Saints and Sinners: A reflection on sanitized church liturgies
All Saints Day in mainline Christian churches offers a chance to pause and reflect, but the liturgies can feel Hallmarky. Read on for more.
Janet Tilstra
Nov 9, 20223 min read


Two Truths and a Lie
It’s election time and the world is rife with truth-telling and accusations of lies. Read on for my version of Two Truths and a Lie.
Janet Tilstra
Oct 30, 20226 min read


How ARE you?
My mother passed away 2 weeks ago and her soul is free of pain. The grief traditions brought closure and yet layers of feelings linger.
Janet Tilstra
Sep 19, 20222 min read


The Neutral Zone
Like many women, I wrestle with changes in my body. I offer the concept of Body Neutrality as a tool for the journey.
Janet Tilstra
Aug 31, 20223 min read


Have you met Ted?
When caring for an aging parent...surprising relationships can emerge. In this essay, I reflect on an unexpected friendship.
Janet Tilstra
Jul 21, 20223 min read


Twelve Handicapped* Spots at the Medical Clinic Parking Lot
There are 12 handicapped parking spots in front of the medical plaza I use. I once thought this was excessive, but after this week...
Janet Tilstra
Jun 2, 20224 min read


The Way You Make Me Feel
Bright red shoes and applied improvisation. Lessons learned from residents of a memory cottage.
Janet Tilstra
May 18, 20223 min read


The Wasteland
An essay mirroring T.S. Elliott's poem, The Wasteland. Living in-between, feeling uncertainty, waking up to grey on grey on grey...
Janet Tilstra
Apr 14, 20222 min read
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